You know, I’ve been reflecting on this sacred Feminine journey we’re on—a journey of re-membering, of weaving ourselves back together and coming home to the truth of who we are.
It’s not a straight path but a spiraling dance, one I’ve been moving through for years now.
It's been flowing through my art, my work, my relationships with men and the Masculine, and the evolving dance of the Feminine and Masculine energies within me.
I’m not finished—this is a journey, not a destination.
But along the way, I’ve uncovered truths that feel like the heartbeat of my Feminine essence, truths that have transformed not just how I live, but how I thrive:
My Feminine moves to her own rhythm. She is slow, fluid, and gathering. She doesn’t rush or force; she flows. The world around me demands urgency and grinding, but I’ve learned to honor her intelligent pace. In doing so, I’ve not only found ease and presence, but the wisdom to take the kind action that will create what I desire.
Her wisdom lives in my body. She speaks to me in the subtle sensations of exansion and constractions hat flutter through me body. For so long, I ignored her voice, taught to trust only the stories of my mind. But now, I know her whispers are sacred, and I am learning to listen deeply. The benefit? I feel more grounded, intuitive, and connected to my truth than ever before. I have never trusted myself so much in my life.
My power lies in my ability to feel. When I allow myself to feel fully—without judgment, without trying to control the outcome—I tap into a deep well of creational energy. It’s not something I can force; it’s something I surrender to. This openness has unlocked my creativity, created a loving and accepting relationship with myself, and increased my capacity to hold space for others with authenticity and love.
My desires are sacred. They are not random cravings—they are invitations to co-create with life, with the attuned Masculine energies in the world, and with the universe itself. Yet I’ve also seen how the world exploits the Feminine’s desires, turning them into a hustle, a performance, a transaction. I’ve learned to protect my desires, to honor their purity, and to align them with what truly nourishes me. This has brought me clarity, fulfillment, and my ability to create what I desire.
My no is as sacred as my yes. For too long, I felt I had to say yes to please, to avoid conflict, to meet expectations. But I’ve come to see my no as a fierce act of love, a boundary that protects my energy, my joy, and the sanctity of my whole-hearted yes. This has empowered me to make choices that honor my needs and has created space for the things that truly light me up.
My greatest gift isn’t in how much I do—it’s in how much I be.When I rest in my radiance, my joy, my aliveness, I am at my most powerful. This has been one of the hardest lessons for me to embrace, living in a world that values doing over being. But it’s also one of the most freeing. I’ve discovered more peace, more inspiration, and a sense of liberation in simply allowing myself to be.
When I honor these truths, everything in my life begins to shift. I feel more alive, more connected, and more creative. I find joy in the small moments and feel less pressure to constantly do. My relationships feel richer because I’m showing up as my authentic self, and I feel a deep sense of trust in life’s flow.
I’ve also discovered that the Feminine holds profound gifts not just for me, but for the world. When I’m in alignment with her, I create beauty, connection, and life in everything I touch. I inspire others to do the same, to lean into their own softness, strength, and truth.
This, I believe, is the Feminine Heroine’s Journey—to reclaim and celebrate HER, the Feminine within us all, as an equally vital and powerful force as the Masculine. To honor her unique essence and understand her as complete and whole, just as she is.
Because here’s the truth: the Masculine energies that dismiss the Feminine’s value are living in their own shadows, cut off from the Feminine within their hearts. And when the Feminine abandons herself to serve those shadows, she does so at her own peril—and at the peril of the world.
This I learned from one of my great teachers, Gillian Pothier: What the Masculine cannot feel, it won't care about. And we see the evidence all around us—in systems that devour themselves, in the suffering of the planet, and in the aching hearts of humanity.
The greatest shift towards healing- within and without- starts when we pratice feeling ourselves.
We, as women, as bearers of this sacred Feminine energy, hold the answer. This journey we are on—the Feminine Heroine’s Journey—isn’t just for us. It’s for life itself.
Are you on it?
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