
...WE NEED HIM TO UPGRADE.
Starting with our own inner Masculine.
Because our own inner Masculine is a reflection of the Masculine we have experienced since we were little girls.
The Masculine of our imperfect father, who was the earthly incarnation of God.
The common Masculine concept God, with qualities of the patriarchy that created him.
The Masculine that taught us what we meant to him and what he decided we meant to the world was the sum total of our worth.
Maybe your "little girl" had a Masculine in her life that treated her as precious and worthy just as she was.
But maybe your little girl had a Masculine in her life who didn't pay attention to her or show empathy for her feelings.
That denigrated her, that didn't believe in her.
A Masculine whose love and attention she had to work hard for without ever really achieving.
And if that latter is true, you may now embody that quality of that harmful Masculine within you.
Your inner Masculine may be armored, controlling, angry, critical, demanding and lacking in empathy for the feelings of others. Because you saw that to survive in the Masculine world, it is safer to be the hammer than the nail.
Or your inner Masculine is an inner tyrant against yourself- judging you, criticizing you, demanding perfection, working you to exhaustion without regard for how you feel and what you need.
The creative power of the Masculine in the world comes from it's ability to over come, power over, push through and acheive at all cost but, Ladies, we do need some of that Masculine AND NEVER IN IT'S ABUSIVE FORM.
OUR SACRED RESPONSIBILITY AS WOMEN IS TO HEAL WITH THE MASCULINE-
AND THAT MUST BEGIN WITH HEALING THE MASCULINE WITHIN OURSELVES-
By creating an inner Masculine that cherishes us:
That honors our own feelings and needs.
That cares for our own health and comfort.
That respects our own pace.
That has self-mastery when we must swing our wrecking ball of truth.
That honors what we need to do to cherish our own inner Feminine first.
And when we do, our own inner Masculine can do what it does so well:
Lead us to create our lives without denying, dismissing, denigrating and abandoning any part of ourselves a long the way.
And be the template for our relationships with men, because we attract on the outside what we have going on on the inside.
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