When Life Becomes Your Lover

I remember a time when something had been feeling… off in the realm of love. Not in a dramatic, falling-apart kind of way. Just a subtle ache of dissatisfaction.

So one morning, I brought it into meditation. I closed my eyes, placed my hand on my heart, and whispered:

“Please tell me the truth.”

I thought I was asking for clarity about a romance. But what I received instead was something far greater. Something I didn’t even know I needed.

Because that day, I did something different. Instead of tightening around the kind of answer I thought I wanted—I softened. I surrendered my agenda. I made space.

And in the spaciousness of my question , I became a vessel—open, receptive, available for something greater than I could have directed myself.

And in response, something poured in:

“The world is your lover. Life is your lover. You can be in love all the time.”

I felt that in my body—the feeling I call p*ssytwinkle®—that feminine oracle we have that knows the truth when she hears it.

In that moment, I remembered what I had forgotten: This is the true creational magic of the feminine in us.

Not by performing, controlling, trying to be lovable, but by opening to receive something greater than we can create by ourselves.

So the question isn’t: “How do I become more wanted?” The deeper, creational question is:“What do I love? And how do I desire to feel?” 

And when I ask that, I can feel what I call GUS—God / Universe / Source—move in closer.

Because that energy- the energy of life, of creation- longs to feel us, and dance with us in the way that only we love to dance.

We don’t have to strategize or seduce life into choosing us. It already has.

When we stop shaping ourselves to be more acceptable, more desirable, more something else, and instead fill our lives with what we genuinely love, we become vessels for receiving even more of it.

Because being “the one” was never about being chosen.

It’s about becoming the woman who is always in love, moment to moment—with her truth, her longings, her body’s senses, her creations, her joy and her grief, her every breath. With LIFE as HER.

From that place, we are felt. From that place we magnetize and create more of what we love, because life responds. With presence. With poetry. With provision- even when it is the precise pain we need to remind us of who we are. Always with new possibility.

Because when you stop trying to find love and start being in love with life and yourself as only you can live it, you remember what’s been true all along:

You are already the Beloved.

And life, in all its wild, beautiful, challenging, wondrous ways, is always loving you back.

Love,

Linda